Lots of things bothering me and overtaking my mind at the moment, especially after looking at Fakebook. I need to stay away from that place, it's just a painful reminder of what a loser I am.
1. Cousin Mark's stupid wife popped out the kid this weekend. Feeling all angsty and weird about it. Letting myself feel bad. Why? I have to get over it. Now every time someone pops I have to get used to them asking when it's going to happen for us. Ron has reassured me. He said this weekend that he'd like one, but it's just too late. That's his reasoning...it's too late. He's being very good about it, really. I feel bad because I'm always sure to slap him upside the head with angry-toned comments like, "There's no way in hell I'd have the patience for that!" or "You and I would make terrible parents." or "Who is stupid enough to want to raise kids in this fucked up world?!" He agrees with these things but always tells me to calm down and let it go. I have to listen to him or it will remain an issue forever. I just want to get over it but I'm doing a terrible job of trying.
2. I want to go camping. Melanie went with that chick Liza and the group again this weekend. Liza has posted her happy fun in the sun pics, of course. Melanie isn't mad at me, by the way. I made it into a big thing in my head as usual. We got together for a bit on Friday night to exchange birthday gifts, it was nice. She told me how she and Ivan were going to do an overnight camp the next day. I was like, "Oh really? Cool..." on the outside, but kinda sad on the inside again. I wish I could have been there, but my husband and I don't like the group anyway. We only like Melanie. Why can't I just move on from this?
3. I'm so happy for my friend Kim because she's having a blast training horses. Her barn is all up and running and she trains children to ride horses. It's such a wonderful and fulfilling job, perfect for her. She worked so hard to get there and I'm very happy for her. She posted some more pictures of the Dressage show she had over the weekend. Again, I wanted to be there. I commented and said I wanted to go to the next one and she responded right away, telling me the next show is on the 20th. I plan to go, but I'll probably have to go without Ron again. He's never going to meet these people and I want him to so badly... Anyway, I'm gonna go, but this stupid jealousy is going to nag me. I'm going to wish that I had the tenacity and the drive to do what Kim is doing. I'm going to wish I could move there and help her with the business. But no, I'm stuck here.
4. My friend Trya (actually, more Melanie's friend from work, we just all hang out every now and again) finally married the father of her child last year after some drama. Anyway, her husband added me and wanted to use my art skills. He asked me to design a tattoo for him and said he'd pay me. It took me a week, but I did a first sketch and emailed it to him. He never answered my email. A week later I sent it again, and noted on Fakebook that I'd emailed him and asked if he ever got it. No answer again. Today I see he posted his brand new tattoo, designed by someone else. That's fine, but really... He could have at least answered my email. Asshole.
So why do I let all these stupid things bring me down on myself? Feels like everyone else is having a blast while I'm at home watching tv, sleeping and getting drunk and stoned like a fucking loser. I have to get out of this cycle. It's not Ron's fault, it's mine. I don't want to do anything. I feel powerless and worthless. I hate my life and I made it this way. Why can't I just be happy? Why does this horrible jealousy have such a grip on me? I cant' stop. I don't want to stop. I just want to give up. I hate myself.
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