Feeling out of place

I know...more pictures of my cat! What did you expect? Since I seem to be lacking excitment in my life lately, I decided to bring Stanley to work yesterday. My boss is on vacation so my animal loving coworker and I decided to have another pet day. That's lovley coworker posing with him, she's such a sweetie. I love that she adores animals as much as I do. She has a dog and a rabbit at home.

The last time I brought Stan to work with me was about five years ago, when my ex-boss was out of town on business and I was left alone at the office for a few weeks. When Stanley was a teenaged kitty, he had much more energy and curiosity so he seemed to enjoy exploring the large office building. Well, he'll be nine years old this coming October so he's becoming an old hair man... He's entering the old homebody stage, set in his ways. He felt nervous and out of place all day, didn't touch his food or water until I brought it over to his comfort spot under my desk, where he spent the majority of the day. I did bring him to the upstairs office once to see what he'd do, but he just cowered under the main desk, in between all the wires and crap. The server happens to be under that desk so I had to get him out of there...cat hair in the computer system spells future disaster for sure.

No more outings for kitty, unless he has no choice... He's okay with being indoors most of the time. I do let them outside on the weekends occasionally, but they rarely spend too much time out there. They're usually back inside napping after only about an hour.

So what else is new in my boring life? Well, I must say I happen to be feeling a little out of place with my friends. More like one friend, really... Okay, so I've been avoiding Fakebook, right? I've been trying anyway. I go to visit the few friends I like on there and that's been it. Maybe play a few games or take some stupid quizzes, not too much. I try to avoid looking at things that might upset my rediculously delicate feelings. This morning I saw it again. More pictures from that Liza chick showing the 4th of July 'celebration'. Normally, this wouldn't bother me, except for the fact that once again my 'best' friend Melanie was in them. Yea... The one I emailed and called on Friday to see what they were doing for the 4th. The one who didn't return my call all weekend, then returned my email on Monday apologizing for not calling me back, adding that she'd spent the weekend not doing much but sunning herself. I know, get over it right? So what if Melanie wants to hang out with 'the gang'. I'm not invited anymore. All those 'mutual friends' I thought Melanie and I had are really just friends with Melanie. They don't give a flying shit about me.

I realize Melanie is not in a good place in her life right now. The poor thing is losing her job in less than a month (she's known she was laid off for five months now), she's living with a boyfriend who is very difficult (we're going through very similiar relationship issues, actually, 'sept he won't marry her) and she's just had a shitty year altogether and is burnt the hell out. I can't help but wonder if I'm just a reminder of bad times to her. I wonder if that's the reason she seems to be avoiding me... Not returning my calls or emails for days and such. Really, I'm not contacting her a lot at all. I'm totally giving her space and respect that she's got a lot going on. I just can't help but feel a little hurt. I guess I'm too much of a jealous person. What is the point? Should I even bother mentioning this to her? I wonder if I'll just throw it out there next time we get together, if it's not too far into the future... "SOooo, what'd you guys end up doin' on the 4th?" She'll probably tell me they went to a party.

It's not a big deal, I know. I just feel so disconnected from everything lately. I guess I could try to get off my ass and contact people...they just seem to be moving on with their lives without me. I should get used to it. That's how life works. It's happened to me before, friends come and go, sometimes it's the same people. You'll disconnect for years and then something brings you together.

Hell, it's time to get back to my work. I need to concentrate on my tasks and stop worrying endlessly.

Oh yea, one other thing... Chris, if you happen to be reading this, could you please give me a password to your page? Thanks...

Later.