I almost missed it the damn thing flew by so fast! But it was a very nice, relaxing vacation indeed. Until we got home, of course. It only took a day and a half for the shit to hit the fan again. I know, I know...I'm trying to do something about it, I really am. It just takes a bit of adjustment to realize that your marriage is going to hell. I'm the only one who thinks that, by the way. You know, 'cause I'm the crazy one with all the issues. He's just fine, dandy and normal and I just have to learn to live with it. That's not gonna happen. Calling the counselor's office first thing tomorrow, as they're not open today. Gotta at least try to make him see what he refuses to see.
I'll be back with pics from our trip. We got some beautiful pics...
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Oh good God, I HATE that. "YOU'RE the one with the problem, not me. As far as I'm concerned, we're just fine." Yeah well, guess what? If Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy.
Good luck, honey.
Happy wife, happy life, I always say. But a lot of men aren't too swift with things like this. A woman can talk, yell, beg, stonewall, jump up and down, run through the room screaming, cry, refuse sex, whatever, but it's a surprise to them when she says she's calling an attorney. This is because a lot of them can't think past their own 2 square feet of existence and think of someone else for a change. It's selfishness, pure and simple. It's also denial when they DO know something is wrong, and laziness when they don't want to fix it. And if it turns out that you've reeled in one of those, you'd be better off without him. You are MUCH too young to throw your life into a pit of despair.
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